Hot sex in a 20-year monogamous relationship. Impossible, right? 

I thought so too, until everything changed in December 2020 when my spouse and I started the Sure Thing weekly practice. Instead of feeling like a victim to our sexual appetite or lack thereof, I now feel empowered.

We met in a workshop about exploring pleasure. Those first years, it didn’t take much to keep the spark in our relationship lit. Then we got married and had a kid. You know the story. There wasn’t much opportunity, and there certainly wasn’t as much lust. We tried many gimmicks, but nothing worked…until we committed to this weekly practice.

Sexual dissatisfaction is an epidemic in our society. Studies regularly show that more than 50% of people surveyed are sexually unsatisfied. 

The Sure Thing can change that. It is a simple, personalized, and reliable way to cultivate more intimacy, connection, and pleasure in your life. It can be done solo or with a partner and is designed to fulfill your specific desires. You can spend all night or just 10 minutes on it. 

The Sure Thing Pleasure Practice is a playbook that includes specific exercises to heal shame, learn how to ask for what you want, and deepen self love. It is an interactive step-by-step guide to establish long-term sexual satisfaction.

Elana Auerbach is a lover, mother, mentor, activist, priestess, and creatrix of The Sure Thing. She’s writing the book because she wants everyone to have access to this life altering practice. Elana can be reached here.